The Role of Emotional Intelligence in Early Education

March 7, 2025

Emotional intelligence (EI) is a vital component of effective teaching and child development. Defined as the ability to understand and manage one’s own emotions while empathizing with others (Salovey & Mayer, 1990). EI fosters positive outcomes for preschool-aged children, including enhanced social skills and problem-solving abilities.

Children with strong emotional intelligence navigate social situations more effectively, leading to healthier relationships and key skills like cooperation and communication. Therefore, early educators are encouraged to integrate EI into their curricula, helping children gain academic knowledge and essential emotional skills.

By promoting emotion recognition, self-regulation, and empathy, educators can lay a solid foundation for future success. Prioritizing emotional intelligence in early childhood education is essential for holistic development and effective teaching.

Understanding Emotional Intelligence

Several key components of emotional intelligence contribute to a child’s social and cognitive development:

  1. Self-awareness: This involves understanding one’s own emotions and their influence on behavior.
  2. Self-regulation: The ability to manage emotions constructively and adapt to different situations. For example, children with high EI can transition between activities more smoothly, using techniques like deep breathing to calm themselves during challenging transitions such as ending playtime.
  3. Motivation: This entails utilizing emotions to foster positive behaviors and to achieve goals. Children with high EI tend to be more focused and resilient, viewing failures as a learning curve.
  4. Empathy The capacity to recognize and understand the emotions of others. For instance, a child may comfort a distressed classmate by sharing their belongings or offering support.
  5. Social Skills The ability to build and maintain healthy relationships through effective communication. Children with high EI understand social cues, such as body language and facial expressions, enabling them to connect better with peers and educators.


When these aspects of EI are nurtured in preschool settings, children enhance their interactions with peers, develop resilience, and establish a solid foundation for lifelong emotional well-being.

 

Benefits of Emotional Intelligence in Early Education

Social Development

One of the most significant benefits of EI for young children is its positive impact on social development. Children with strong EI can better recognize and regulate their emotions, facilitating healthier social interactions. They are more likely to demonstrate kindness, cooperation, and effective conflict-resolution skills, essential for building positive relationships.

Academic Performance

There is a correlation between emotional development in early childhood and higher academic performance. Children with high EI typically exhibit greater focus, persistence, and adaptability in various learning environments. They manage stress and frustration more effectively, tackle problems with confidence, and perform well across multiple subjects. Techniques such as deep breathing and mindfulness help them cope with stress.


Long-term Impact


The benefits of teaching emotional intelligence extend far beyond early education. Children who develop strong EI tend to enjoy better mental health, more successful careers, and fulfilling adult relationships. They demonstrate higher levels of resilience and adaptability, equipping them to navigate life's challenges effectively. 

 In summary, prioritizing emotional intelligence in early education is critical for fostering the overall development of children, equipping them with essential life skills for future success.


Strategies for Fostering Emotional Intelligence in Education

Curriculum Integration

Integrating emotional intelligence (EI) into the school curriculum can be accomplished through a variety of engaging and thoughtful methods that resonate with students. Some effective approaches include:

  • Storytelling

 Utilize captivating narratives that delve into complex emotions and foster empathy.

  • Creative Expression

 Encourage children to express their emotions through different artistic mediums including painting, and drawing. Creating art can help them constructively process their feelings. Additionally, fostering an environment that promotes open discussions about their artwork and emotions. By doing so, you can help them articulate their thoughts and feelings more clearly, enhancing their emotional intelligence and communication skills. Engaging in conversations about their creative expressions not only validates their experiences. It also strengthens the bond between the teacher and the child.

  • Role-Playing

 Create dynamic role-playing exercises that allow students to practice their emotional regulation and problem-solving skills.

  • Group Discussions

 Encouraging meaningful group discussions allows children to share and reflect on their emotional experiences, fostering the development of their social interaction skills.


Environment and Culture

Creating a nurturing and supportive school environment is essential for fostering emotional intelligence. A safe and welcoming space enables learners to freely express and validate their emotions. To cultivate such a positive culture, the following should be considered:

  1. Encouragement: Inspire learners to share their feelings and perspectives to foster a supportive and open environment. Having a classroom culture of trust and respect is essential. It ensures that learners feel safe expressing their feelings without fear of judgment or ridicule.
  2. Mindfulness Techniques: Incorporate calming relaxation techniques, such as guided meditation and breathing exercises, to empower learners in effectively managing their stress. These practices can foster a supportive learning environment and promote overall well-being.
  3. Recognition: Make it a priority to regularly recognize, and celebrate learners' expressions of emotional awareness, as it encourages their growth and self-understanding.




Role of Educators and Parents

Educator Training and Practices

Teachers hold a crucial position in nurturing students' emotional intelligence. Schools should invest in comprehensive training focusing on fostering emotional literacy and conflict resolution skills. Effective strategies include:

  1. Active Listening: Focus on actively listening when children share their feelings, as this helps create a supportive and understanding environment.
  2. Problem-Solving Encouragement: Guide learners through constructive conflict resolution processes, equipping them with the tools to navigate disagreements effectively.
  3. Self-Regulation Techniques: Teach learners practical methods, such as mindfulness and breathing exercises, to help them manage their emotions.
  4. Parental Involvement: Parents should model healthy emotional expression, teach coping mechanisms, praise and validate positive emotional behaviors, and participate in team-based activities where children can practice empathy and cooperation.

 

Challenges and Considerations

  1. Diverse Emotional Needs: Every child has unique emotional needs shaped by their background and personality. Schools and educators should adopt flexible approaches to support various levels of emotional development. For instance, smaller, quieter group settings can benefit children who feel overwhelmed in larger classrooms. 
  2. Limited Support and Resources: Limited resources can create challenges for implementing emotional development programs. Schools can address this by partnering with psychologists, training teachers, organizing workshops for parents, and integrating emotional intelligence into the curriculum.

Conclusion

Emotional intelligence is fundamental to children's social skills, academic success, and overall well-being. By thoughtfully integrating emotional intelligence into preschool education, we prepare learners for a brighter future, equipping them with the skills necessary to become confident, compassionate individuals. At Gaborone International School, we deeply prioritize emotional intelligence, understanding that this investment shapes the intelligent leaders of tomorrow.

How School Clubs Foster Personal Growth – The Debate Club

By Matshidiso Kokorwe • June 12, 2025
At GIS, learning goes beyond textbooks—it shapes the whole child. Clubs and co-curricular activities play a vital role in developing confident, curious, and capable students. Few are as transformative as the Debate Club, which equips learners with essential life skills while offering a space for personal growth and discovery. Debate Club gives students powerful exposure to diverse perspectives. Whether working with peers across year groups or engaging with students from other schools, these moments build empathy, adaptability, and communication skills—qualities that serve them long after school. But debate is about more than arguing opposing views. It’s a rigorous yet supportive environment where students learn to think on their feet, research thoroughly, and communicate with clarity. For many, it begins with hesitation. That’s why our club introduces new members through informal discussions and mock debates. These non-competitive sessions provide a safe space to learn structure, build confidence, and grow at their own pace. The first real test came at Maru-a-Pula School. Though they didn’t win, the experience was formative. Students learned how to source information properly, evaluate claims critically, and present arguments grounded in logic and evidence. They also strengthened their media literacy—developing the discernment to separate fact from misinformation in today’s digital world. These habits extend beyond debating. In the classroom and beyond, students become more intentional, articulate, and resilient. They learn to present clearly, listen actively, and stay composed under pressure. This confidence isn’t built overnight—but the Debate Club lays the foundation. Importantly, they also learned to lose well. Just a week after their initial loss, the team competed again—this time at Westwood International School. The challenge: present a business proposal to a panel of judges. Drawing on everything they had learned, the team walked away with a well-deserved win: Best Speaker in the Business Pitch category, and 1st Place overall . But more valuable than the trophy was what the moment represented—growth, teamwork, and resilience in action. What Our Debaters Say “Debate at GIS is about more than just public speaking,” says Nicole Cole, a Form 3 learner. “It helps you become more confident, informed, and ready to lead. Whether you're debating in class or on stage, you learn to think critically, express ideas clearly, and listen respectfully. It’s an experience that stays with you.” Club captain and Best Speaker winner Neelo Tshimologo, also in Form 3, shares: “I didn’t start debate with confidence. It built over time—through mistakes, learning, and just showing up. Now, I speak in class without overthinking. I contribute in group work. I work better with people, even adults. Debate taught me to listen properly, not just wait to speak. That’s helped in real life too. Even my writing improved. I now build strong arguments, use evidence correctly, and my teachers have noticed the difference—especially in English and History. Honestly, debate didn’t just teach me how to argue—it helped me communicate, stay calm, and show up with confidence, even when I felt unsure.”  Thanks to the support of highly qualified staff and the commitment of students, Debate Club continues to grow in numbers and impact. It’s one of many ways GIS enriches learning beyond the classroom—bridging academic content from the Cambridge curriculum with real-world application. As part of the ADvTECH group, GIS students benefit from world-class opportunities in a multicultural, well-resourced environment. Clubs like Debate reflect our commitment to developing confident, articulate leaders—ready to succeed anywhere. Students who step into Debate Club may start unsure—but they leave empowered.

10 Signs Your Child Is Ready for Standard 1

By Lisedi Phuti, Primary School Principal, Gaborone International School • June 12, 2025
Starting Standard 1 is a big leap for young learners. At Gaborone International School, we understand just how significant this transition is, and we are here to support you every step of the way. Over the years, we’ve walked this journey with hundreds of young learners, and while each child is wonderfully unique, there are a few signs we look for that suggest a child is ready to step confidently into Standard 1. While each child develops at their own pace, there are several common signs that suggest your child is ready to take on this exciting new chapter. Here are some helpful indicators:  Follows Simple Instructions Your child can listen to and follow 2–3 step directions, such as “Put your shoes away, wash your hands, and come to the table.” Works Independently for Short Periods They can focus on a task like colouring, building, or simple writing for at least 10–15 minutes without constant help. Expresses Needs Clearly Your child can use words to express when they are hungry, need the bathroom, feel upset, or have a question. Plays and Cooperates with Others They can take turns, share, and interact respectfully with other children in a group setting. Manages Basic Self-Care They can handle simple personal tasks like washing hands, packing a bag, or tidying up after an activity. Shows Curiosity and Interest in Learning Your child asks questions about the world, enjoys listening to stories, and shows interest in letters, numbers, or new experiences. Recognizes Some Letters and Numbers While full literacy isn’t expected yet, your child should be familiar with the alphabet and numbers 1–10. Identifies and Regulates Basic Emotions They are learning to name feelings like “sad” or “frustrated” and are beginning to calm themselves with adult guidance. Follows a Routine Your child is used to structured parts of the day like waking up, eating meals, and going to bed at regular times. Feels Comfortable in Group Settings Whether it’s a family gathering, Sunday school, or pre-school class, they can function in environments with multiple children and adults. At GIS, we know that no child needs to “tick every box” to be ready. What matters most is their growing confidence, curiosity, and willingness to learn. Are you unsure or have some questions about your child’s transition into Standard 1? I’d love to meet with you in person, hear more about your child, and help guide you through this important stage. Book a coffee chat with me at GIS — together, we’ll ensure your child’s next step is the right one. I look forward to connecting with you! — Lisedi Phuti, Primary School Principal

What Sets a Cambridge Education Apart

May 28, 2025
Understanding the System, Its Structure, and Global Value When parents consider their child’s future, they naturally want an education that unlocks opportunity and builds confidence. The Cambridge International curriculum does exactly that—offering more than a qualification. It offers aspiration, access, and academic excellence. A Global Standard for Ambitious Learners Cambridge is one of the most recognised and respected international education systems in the world. Offered in over 160 countries, it’s a curriculum trusted by top universities and employers across the globe. Whether your child wants to study in South Africa, Canada, the UK, or beyond, Cambridge provides a qualification that travels well. At its heart, it’s not just about where learners can go, but who they become along the way—resilient, culturally aware, and confident young adults. A Structured Pathway, A Flexible Future The Cambridge curriculum supports students from early secondary through to school-leaving level: Cambridge Lower Secondary prepares students with strong foundations. IGCSE develops subject mastery, critical thinking, and choice. AS and A Levels deepen academic strength and university readiness. What sets Cambridge apart is that it provides structure without being rigid. Schools can personalise delivery to reflect local relevance and learner needs, while still maintaining international benchmarks. More Than a Syllabus—A Skillset Cambridge places an emphasis on what students can do with what they know. Learners are encouraged to: Analyse and evaluate Think independently Communicate effectively Solve real-world problems This goes far beyond exam preparation. It cultivates learners who are emotionally and intellectually ready for the demands of university, the workplace, and society. Assessments That Develop, Not Diminish Rather than rewarding rote memorisation, Cambridge assessments are designed to reflect understanding, application, and insight. This aligns with GIS’s values of empowering learners and nurturing excellence at every stage. Students are given the chance to shine through varied question types and rigorous, fair marking. Real-World Application: Exposure to Global Pathways To bring this international value to life, we complement the academic journey with real-time exposure to global opportunities. Recently, GIS welcomed representatives from the University of Pretoria , as well as Canadian university campuses , who engaged learners on everything from study visas and scholarships to adapting to student life abroad. These experiences help students envision the next step and equip families with practical tools for planning their academic futures. The Functional Edge of a Cambridge School The Cambridge system is most powerful when paired with strong pastoral care and a culture of excellence. GIS aligns this with: AI-driven academic support Dedicated pastoral care , including a full-time psychologist Multicultural, inclusive environments Highly qualified teachers World-class sporting and co-curricular opportunities Together, these create not only superior academic outcomes but also well-rounded, adaptable students who are ready to thrive. In Summary: Confidence in the Journey Ahead A Cambridge education doesn’t just aim high—it helps students get there. It blends global standards with local care, academic rigour with emotional support, and structure with opportunity. That’s why parents feel proud of their children’s qualifications, and students feel confident in their future success.  Thomas Ramakgoakgoa Head of High School Gaborone International School
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