ARE YOU A DECISION MAKER?
June 25, 2021
“Your life choices aren’t just about what you want to do; they’re about who you want to be” – Joshua Rothman
Are you a decision maker? Of course you are. If not for a major corporation or start-up, at least for your family or your own life. Do you want to get face-to-face with the biggest decision maker who can improve your life and business? Look in the mirror.
This article is dedicated to all our parents and students who wants to take charge by being a more effective decision maker, whilst providing you with the effective tools to help yourself and your child navigate the process and achieving this goal.
It is crucial for young people to understand this process to help empower them to make confident, positive decisions regarding the social, emotional and physical wellbeing for themselves and those around them as they move toward independence.
Being an effective decision maker helps any person make the best choices, but more than that, it lets you decide what the choices are and, in fact, what problem is being solved. More than anything else, it puts you in charge of your life. It is probably the most important skill for success.
So, why does everybody hate making decisions? You never hear anyone say, “Yay! I have a decision to make!” Decisions are seen as stumbling blocks rather than opportunities. The best way is to approach this process is to ask the following questions:
- What decision needs to be made,
- What are the options,
- Evaluate the options and pick the best one (pros and cons list), and
- Act on your choice and see how it works. And don’t be afraid to fail.
Decision-making is both art and science. There is an entire discipline of decision science. You can get a degree on the subject. Decision science teaches you how to maximize the expected value of your utility function. What does that mean? How does this apply to real people making real decisions?
Decision science often focuses on making a choice among alternatives, yet being an effective decision maker requires much more than this. This is where the art comes in.
- What is the most important problem to be solved?
- What are the alternatives?
- What does the future hold?
- What about all these conflicting goals?
To do this well requires both courage and imagination. Pep talks help, but specific tools and techniques are better. The secret is to strike a balance.
Here are 10 tips that will help you develop, strengthen and flex your decision-making skills.
- Know your goal.
- Never make decisions in a bad frame of mind or in a haste.
- Understand all your options.
- Visualize your future, does this decision benefit your long-term goal.
- Eliminate the unwanted. Making good decisions isn’t always about focusing on what you want, but sometimes about focusing what you don’t want but rather need.
- While aiming for the best, remember that it is not always your only option. Sometimes taking the lesser road travelled, brings you to great success.
- Don’t overthink things.
- Sometimes taking your own advice, is good advice. Imagine you are speaking to a third party that needs the same advice you are about to give ‘yourself’. Sometimes removing yourself from the equation, gives you clearer perspective.
- Look to others when needed. You can learn a lot from other people’s experiences.
- Always trust our instinct – if it doesn’t sit well with you walk away.
By no means can every tip teach good decision-making, however it is the perfect place to start!
To embrace good decision-making skills is to empower yourself and our younger generation, in making positive life choices as you navigate the challenges of life. So, make the effort master the art of decision-making.

At Gaborone International School, we often speak to parents who carry both excitement and concern about their children’s future. Many wonder whether their child will cope with academic pressure, adapt to independent living overseas, stay emotionally strong, or successfully compete in an increasingly global world. These are very real concerns, and as educators, we see it as our responsibility to prepare students not only for examinations, but for life beyond school. Academic excellence remains a strong foundation. Through the Cambridge IGCSE curriculum, students develop internationally recognised qualifications that open doors to universities around the world. Our students consistently achieve outstanding results, and many can study abroad directly after IGCSE without needing AS Level studies. The strength of First Language English at GIS, together with the fact that learning and communication across the school happen in English, also gives students an important advantage when applying internationally. However, future success is about far more than grades alone. To prepare students further, GIS regularly hosts visits from international universities, including institutions from South Africa, Switzerland, and Canada. These engagements help learners and parents better understand global opportunities and career pathways. Students also participate in excursions to companies, institutions, and factories, giving them valuable exposure to different professions and working environments. One of the greatest transformations I have personally witnessed involved a student who began as extremely shy and reserved. She rarely spoke publicly and lacked confidence in her abilities. Over time, through opportunities provided by the school, she slowly found her voice. Today, she runs her own student career guidance consultancy and even speaks at national events. Her journey is a reminder that confidence can be taught, nurtured, and developed when students are consistently encouraged to step forward. GIS intentionally creates those opportunities. Students participate in debate and public speaking clubs, present during assemblies from Form 1, facilitate workshops, elect class monitors, and choose their own sports captains. During Entrepreneurship Day, students run their own business stalls and experience real decision-making, teamwork, and responsibility. Through Culture Week, students celebrate diversity and learn to appreciate different backgrounds and perspectives. These experiences help students become adaptable, confident, and culturally aware — qualities universities and employers increasingly value. Equally important is learner support. We understand that academic pressure can affect confidence and well-being. GIS has a resident psychologist who supports students emotionally and psychologically, while our restorative approach to discipline focuses on growth rather than punishment. I have seen learners who once struggled with anxiety and mental blocks go on to perform exceptionally well in their final examinations because they felt supported, understood, and guided. The world our children are entering is also rapidly changing technologically. GIS responds to this through Robotics, EdTech, and a strong focus on future-ready skills. Together with the ADvTECH Global Competency Skills and RDI (Respect, Diversity, and Inclusion) frameworks, and Community Service programmes, students are taught adaptability, collaboration, leadership, empathy, and responsible global citizenship from an early age. Ultimately, our goal at GIS is simple: to help every learner achieve their aspirations. We want students to leave our school academically strong, emotionally grounded, culturally aware, and confident enough to thrive anywhere in the world.



